WONDERING IN A LIMBO,
ME & MY 3 TUFTS LEFT
An uncertain period of awaiting a decision or resolution; an intermediate state or condition.
How long has it been?
For me, it lasted 8 years. Let’s say I’ve paid my dues from the crime committed and that when I look back at myself in that period I think: why the heck did I wait this long?! What was I really afraid of?!
Freedom is just a razor away, sister.
If only I had found someone bold enough to tell me this while I was living what I’d call the longest walk of shame of my life!!
This… and a special someone looking straight into my eyes, saying: “I love you with or without your hair, you are beautiful the way you are and there’s no way they could have made you better.“
Jee. I would have shaved in a second.
Because, with all due respect, it is so much easier to have someone you care about spelling out loud what you should be saying every single day to yourself rather than learning “you are beautiful” as a mantra and repeat it in front of the mirror 3 times in a row every morning.
But that didn’t happen to me, so I had to go through the mantra. 8 years. Girl. Don’t wait anymore. It’s time you move on and realize that the very important moments in life are the ones where your hair is messy and you’re not thinking about how you look.
There is a word I have argued with before, but which I find indispensable to be able to turn the page, and that is: value.
Would you say your life value depends on your hair?
Would you say you’re worth loving because of your hair?
If you see a stranger without hair crossing your way, would your first thought be “I could never be with that person!“?
No, no and no?
Well, I thought so.
The sooner you gather the strength to turn the page, the better. Your life will be easier if you accept yourself.
And yes, we are not talking about just hair anymore.
So, are you ready to free yourself from all doubts and pain? Take a deep breath and follow this bald happy lady!
LEARN THE BASICS OF LOOKING GREAT
RIP THE BANDAGE OFF RAMBO STYLE
The safe way of starting to deal with this is learning how to play with your look so that you like what you see and especially learning how to stop hiding yourself.
There is literally nothing to hide.
If you take good care of yourself and accept your perks as much as your flaws, you are invincible and people will want to be you!
The first rule of this game is: don’t take it out on the mirror.
The mirror is NOT your enemy, it doesn’t reflect who you are, it only reflects what you think of yourself.
Stage 1, as above mentioned, is a safer route I have drafted so that after you’ve read this guide, you will feel like you are in control again.
Because, if you scratch the surface, this is what we are really talking about: control. You have been living in this limbo that I like to call the “what is going to happen when…” zone.
The hell pit of low-esteem moments in your life.
You are not in control of what is happening, of what people say about it, of what you always have to explain to your friends, of the worried look of your loved ones. You don’t have power over this anymore and that is the hard part to accept.
We need to get you that power back.
If your life had been different and you were to wake up one morning, look in the mirror and say: “oh my god, I had enough of this hair, I’m going to shave them all together and be done with it!“, gotten scissors, razor and cut them all off, your reaction to whomever question or puzzled expressions would just be:
also called, stage Rambo.
(you will still need to learn from Stage 1 even if you feel you want to jump to Stage 2, but we’ll see this in a minute)
Now, there are 2 ways you can learn to look awesome:
with me or without me.
How does it work?
Either you send me an email with a picture of you, I send you some instructions to follow, then I call you to check on you (yes, I’m serious), see if you need any help with anything and send you out on your beautiful own
you read my guide and try to do this by yourself, which is also very understandable and you don’t have to explain anything to me or to anyone else.
Either ways are FREE and totally up to you! I’m happy if you are!
So, which one you prefer?