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If you’re at this stage, you are probably freaking out right now.

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And believe me, we’ve all been there. Your hair was something you would struggle with – and quite often, to be fair – you would have never imagined yourself without it.

Your brain must have asked you a million questions from the moment this started, and I bet that your google search came up with some pretty terrifying results (or maybe you got lucky and this page is the first result you found! BE WARNED, stay away from google 😆).

Well, sister. We have a situation here. But there’s no need for you to panic and hyperventilate like men when they get the flu.

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Women in history have dealt with way more shit – pardon my French – than what you will be going through with your hair.

So, sit back, relax and let me help you.

The safe way to start dealing with this, is to learn how to play with your look so that you still like that sweet face of yours in the mirror.

An important note is: the mirror is NOT your enemy, it doesn’t reflect who you are, it only reflects what you think of yourself, it reflects the truth, not YOUR truth.

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So don’t take it out on the mirror if today your thoughts are saying awful things about you. Work on changing the way you see yourself, not the way you are!

I have drafted a safer route so that, after you’ve read this guide, you will feel like you are in control again. Because, if you scratch the surface, this is what upsets you the most: the lack of control. You have been living in this limbo that I like to call the “what is going to happen when…” zone, or “the hell pit of low-esteem moments in your life”.

“What is going to happen when” you are not in control of

  • what is happening,
  • what people will say about it,
  • explanations your friends need, 
  • the worried looks of your loved ones.

You don’t have power over these situations anymore, and that is the hard part to accept. 

We need to get you that power back.

Let’s flip the narrative! 

Let’s imagine you made the choice to have no hair. You woke up one morning, looked in the mirror and said: “oh my god, I had enough of this hair, I’m going to shave it all off and be done with it!“; you got scissors, a razor and followed through. 

You would still get the same puzzled expressions and questions from the people around you. But this time you made the choice to have no hair, so what would you reply to these people?

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Now, you can learn how to look awesome on your own: read my guide and try to do this by yourself. You don’t have to explain this change to me or anyone else. Your way, your time, your judgement.

But also remember, sometimes we are the worst critics when it comes to ourselves, we tend to judge harshly something we wouldn’t have even noticed on someone else. So, in case your brain is not helping, send me a selfie on Instagram and I’ll be your mirror!

Here’s The Bold Girls Guide!

*and don’t forget to let me know what you think of it!

"I hope my work will help bald women feel like themselves again,
and the rest of the world see how being different is
just another way of being wonderfully human!"


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